My sister has now blocked my calls from my mothers house along with my kids. In a text she sent to my daughter, she said "Grandma is not going to have any contact with Sharon's side of the family." They still continue to falsely accuse me of stealing my mother's money but they have not provided proof. The only thing is them stating this and putting their accusation on a lawyers letter, but no proof. What can I do, I want to talk to my mother as she just turned 89 and who knows how much longer she has.
If the later than the sister assigned finances holds the purse strings so how does sister caring for Mom feel ur stealing? Having Medical does not give u power of handling finances.
Do u think sister, because she does the caring, feels she should have the POAs. If Mom has Dementia this won't happen. She is not capable of revoking and reassigning. Ur sister would need to file for guardianship, very expensive. Where is the sister who handles the finances in all this?
I would consult a lawyer. As medical POA I would think u have some rights. Not sure if sister really has the power to keep u away with no POA. I am surprised a lawyer sent you a letter without proof to back it up. I may check him/her out.
Unfortunately, I am unemployed and cannot afford a lawyer at this time.
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In a nut shell, the letter said that I stole my mothers money and I need to pay it back but until such time my mother does not want to speak or look at me and not to call or visit. Last time I was able to see my mother she told me to come anytime. Because she cannot remember anything, they make her think I'm a bad person.
They have had a lot of paperwork changed and my mom doesn't know what she has signed and could not tell you.
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You better check Moms accts and see if you are still listed. She can have you removed. If you still have access, you may want to see if there are any discrepancies. It would be easy for your sister posing as you to forge ur signature and withdrawal money. My bank allows u to see copies of checks and withdrawls by clicking on the item. If the signature is not yours, the bank should have it on file to compare.
I see a lawyer in ur future. So do as much research as you can. You may no longer be a POA or be on Moms accounts. This has been going on now for 2 yrs. You need to find someone to protect you.
I no longer have access to anything and my other sister is the health care POA. I do need someone but able to pay for a lawyer.
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