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You should get legal advice here, but my own feeling is that this must be spent on her needs only, and on health or other necessities. You may want to check with Medicaid to find out, but also, you may have to wait another month before she qualifies and just pay expenses as usual. It's tricky to spend any money unless the need is obvious.
Please check into this with Medicaid or an Elder Law attorney, or else just pay expenses one more month with that $4000. Then, apparently, she will qualify. If this is a matter of getting an available room, she should still get the room under private pay for that month and then go to Medicaid. Good luck. Make each step a sure step so you have no worries afterward. Carol
my girlfriend mention that she has to spend her mil s money before medicaid rejects her , she said she has everything ! i ask her if she has a burial plot , funeral all set up ? she said no . i told her it might be a great idea if she could do instead of buy stuff she doesnt need , also buy a headstone , etc . she wondered if they could do that ? her mil is in the nursing home ...
I was just faced with that exact same thing. It was my fathers life insurance policy face value that kept him from being approved for Medi-Cal/Medicaid. I requested the insurance company to issue a check for an amount below the max allowed by Medi-Cal. I withdrew 3000 from the policy. Leaving 1000 to keep the policy active. I took the money and went to the cemetary where my mother is interned. I sat down with a planner and worked out all the reasonable options. Its so much better to do this when its not really happening. You can think clearer when you are not crying and all. I pre-paid mostly all the funeral services. Now its done and when that time comes we can mourn properly instead of running around to funeral homes/cemetary etc. Now its only one phone call. I save the whole family a lot of trouble. I did that then had the insurance company resubmit the policy face value to the County. My Father was then approved for Medi-Cal.
Your best served by using the money to pay for things that will not be covered by Medicaid. Remember she will have only $ 30 - $ 60 a month in personal money to use once on Medicaid there will be no other money for her to access.
here's my suggestions: A. if she has a home & you want to keep it - prepay utilities, property taxes,insurance, even do prepaid maintenance contracts for the yard, AC, etc. Poof $$$ all gone.
B. if she doesn't have a funeral & burial policy done - this will easily be more that $4K so another good spend down. The critical thing is to have the policy as non-transferable and no cash value. NCV is a key when dealing with Medicaid.
C. if she doesn't have life insurance and is still young enough to buy it - a $ 1K or $ 1,500 TERM life policy. This must be POD (paid on death) only with NCV and no ability to be transferred, the beneficiary ideally should be whomever is the executor of her estate. This would then be $$ the executor/family could use for her final/burial expenses. Again NCV is critical for anything you get for her.
Life insurance is sticky in that whole policies have a cash value (you don't want that). The CV amount of the policy MUST be under whatever is the Medicaid ceiling for insurance policies - for Texas it is $ 1,500. If not, you have to cash out the whole life policy before Medicaid will pay. For term policies, it's also important if mom is still kinda young enough to outlive her term policy to the point that it produces a dividend. That dividend is "income" for Medicaid so you need for the dividend to either be: 1) required to be put back into the policy with no cash distribution OR 2) of such a low amount that it is under the state's ceiling. My experience is that insurance agents hate writing these as they make no real $$ on these type of policies. AARP seem to have the best & easy to set in place ones.
D. legal stuff - If she doesn't have a will, DPOA, MPOA and "guardianship in case of incapacity" done, then go see an elder care attorney to have this drawn up. This maybe will cost $ 500 - 750 and well worth it.
E. if you have all of the above already done - dental work for mom. Get whatever done ASAP. 1 crown, cleaning and xrays & gum work and poof! 4k gone.
F. New glasses, hearing aid and a good premium walker (like a Hugo) are also good items to buy as Medicaid reinburseable's on those items are cheap and ugly.
G. New easy to put on and hot water washable clothing.
Remember to keep all the receipts and business cards, in case there is a glitch when her application is reviewed. Good luck!
My elderly mother lives in assisted living (she has alz), rent just went up, she has no property, she has less than 20,000 in savings, which of course is fast dwindling. I don't think she will qualify for SSI as currently she recieves 2300 per month (total) however after the rent increase she will have less than 50 bucks left for personal expenses. Okay, that's the history, my question is can she transfer the money to me or my bro to use for her care--just in case the living facility increases rent again? Thanks for your help.
my mom is in a nursing home in Illinois - has been there since middle of April. She has no POA and I am the only daughter who lives nearby. She was renting an apartment before she had her illness and so my sister & I have cleared that out & told them she won't be back. Her dr. says she will be a long-term resident (she has cancer & dementia). She gets social security & a pension check at beginning of each month = about $2200. She was made 'skilled care' when she first got to nursing home - they said Medicare would pay for the first 20 days.. well, it's over 20 days now & I have had absolutely no word about how her stay is being paid. She has medicare & also supplemental medical insurance. Do they not care if they are paid or ??? As of now, she has her May checks in her account at the bank (the home has no banking info at this point that I am aware of). She has not been made Medicaid (and will have to be since her checks would not equal a month's say at the home). She has bills still that need to be paid and can get out to the bank w/ me to withdraw money. Since she isn't Medicaid yet - is it okay if I take her to get some money out so I can get her bills paid for her or should we leave all of that money sitting in her account? I don't know what to do and I don't want to get into any trouble if we take money out.. Any advice? Thank you.
@ lamkins514 I have a similar problem and even speaking with an 'expert' i'm still confused my dad applied for medicais but i have to open a miller trust and I'm not sure if it is too late to spend down. good luck.
As igloo says, she will not have much money to buy things after Medicaid starts paying for the NH, so think ahead and buy what she will enjoy there now. Good sturdy comfortable walking shoes. A comfortable chair for her room. She may want familiar things with her, but if she likes new things, a new bedspread, cushions, etc. to spruce up her room. Some simple-to-use device for listening to music. A nice radio, like a Bose.
It is really nice that she gets to spend the money, rather than being required to pay it to the NH. Take advantage of that opportunity.
And your are right! It is that person's money or maybe could be your's someday. I would not do it with out talking to a trusted social worker. Can you afford an elder care lawyer? If you do nothing, the worst that can happen is a fine or the state uses it for medical bills anyway. Your patient does not have mental capacity to spend down. So, it should not be your problem.
LillyLu, spending down usually is triggered by the decision to apply for Medicaid. The worst that could happen if spending down does not take place is that qualifying for Medicaid will be delayed. The idea that the money "could be yours someday" is generally not applicable. This person presumably does not have sufficient resources to pay his or her own way for the care that is needed. There is no extra money to be passing to the next generation. And there really is no question of spending the money or not -- the question is should all of the money be spent on the NH, and then apply for Medicaid when it runs out, or should it be spent on things that will meet the needs of the person (such as a custom wheelchair or prepaid funeral) and then qualify for Medicaid sooner.
It seems to me the hard question is, do we need to apply for Medicaid? If/when the answer is "yes," then spending down is a given.
If all that is standing between the needy person and qualifying for Mediciad is $4,000 (as in the original posting), then the only question left is what is the best way to spend that $4,000.
jeannegibbs: I agree that future generations will probably not see anything. However, in the state of CA, with the 5 year look-back (which is too late for us) any selling of assets is noticed by social scecurity (because it has been listed on the tax forms, etc.) So, I say good luck to you all! We happened to be in the same boat. And would you believe it !!!! It is about $4,000 too. So, mom cannot get medicaid, but she is still low income and qualifies for those particular benefits.
We are in CA too, and my mom is low income, but apparently not quite poor enough (gotta love it)! Her rent of course is going up at the ASL and her retirement account will be gone within 6 months which will then mean her meager savings will be drained within another 6 months, leaving her only with social security benefits which of course will not be enough. So it looks like I will have to face this demon in about 8-9 months, I guess.
vhope00: This next year will be sad for us too. She needs that money she set aside for property taxes and home repairs. She has trees that have grown too high. Her foundation is cracked and does not qualify for earthquake insurance. I help by paying an overdue trash bill or with plumbing. Everywhere I look in her home, I see things my husband got for her, i.e., fridge, TV, microwave, etc. But she still insists on staying in her own home. I have to travel 1500 miles each way. Someday, she may have no choice but go home with me..
That's a long way to go LillyLu. It sounds like you are doing everything to try to help keep her in her home. Does your mom want to come live with you? Or rather how do you feel about the prospect of her coming to live with you?
We would love her to be here. It would be so much better for her hip and arthritis and balance problems! It would be a safer environment too. She could even take the city bus, if she really wanted to, and go to the mall. But she left Germany when it was in ruins. And she likes to be near a German consulate. (It was nerve wracking last year when she could not find her naturalization paper.) Everyone has always told me, "What a nice lady, but I could not understand a word she said!" That really hurts her. She got a BA in English...but what can I do?
I have the same issue with money in my mothers checking account. The only difference is that I am named on the account as well. We are equally on the account-- no "mom 'and' daughter". Can I just take that money out as it comes in since I am an equal account holder? I will be applying for long term medicaid for her tomorrow.
Southerngirl, the short, easy answer here is "no". To the good folks at Medicaid in your state, its not really your money, even though you are on the account as a joint owner.
i am getting confused about the spend down. i thought you can leave 3000 in checking for) a married couple in nursing home . already approved for medicaid. do they have to spend that now to get to $0?
In Oklahoma, DHS is saying we need to spend down 4000.00 cash value of whole life and do away with the policy in order to qualify for medicaid. Does anyone know laws for Oklahoma? We are the children. Policy is a 25,000.00. funeral expenses were already cared for. Do we really have to cancel the policy as well as cash out the value? Remember, I am asking about Oklahoma laws. I cannot find online exactly what I am looking for on this.
When my mom qualifies for Medicaid (state of MD), what does Medicaid cover....does it cover all prescription drugs 100%? what about OTC like aspirin, bandaids, Desitin for diaper rash, Depends diapers, etc.? What about toiletries like tooth paste and toothbrushes, shampoo, hair cuts, ??? Mom now has BCBS as a secondary insurance. Will she need to keep it and if so, are the monthly premiums deducted from her income/assets? What about dental care---should mom buy dental insurance since she is 90 and still has all of her teeth.
My roommate & I have our names on an apartment lease which expires in October this year. She has to go into a nursing soon asap. we do have the option to buy out our lease (pay 2 months rent) and we will be able get out of the lease with no penalty. Are we able to use her funds to do this so that she can be eligible for Medicaid?
Terry, no - having power of attorney does NOT make you personally liable for your loved one's bills. It means strictly that you have the authority to use HIS money for HIS needs only.
As I understand it, a family's obligations to support their indigent elders vary from state to state; but the whole subject is quite controversial, and unless you are very wealthy I don't think you need worry.
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how should I spend down $5000 in one month for my Mom to qualify for Medicaid already in a Nursing Home in S.I. N.Y. but want to transfer her to a NH in Hillsborough NJ & needs to spend down $5000 for this NH in NJ
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Please check into this with Medicaid or an Elder Law attorney, or else just pay expenses one more month with that $4000. Then, apparently, she will qualify. If this is a matter of getting an available room, she should still get the room under private pay for that month and then go to Medicaid. Good luck. Make each step a sure step so you have no worries afterward.
Carol
she wondered if they could do that ? her mil is in the nursing home ...
here's my suggestions:
A. if she has a home & you want to keep it - prepay utilities, property taxes,insurance, even do prepaid maintenance contracts for the yard, AC, etc. Poof $$$ all gone.
B. if she doesn't have a funeral & burial policy done - this will easily be more that $4K so another good spend down. The critical thing is to have the policy as
non-transferable and no cash value. NCV is a key when dealing with Medicaid.
C. if she doesn't have life insurance and is still young enough to buy it - a $ 1K or
$ 1,500 TERM life policy. This must be POD (paid on death) only with NCV and no ability to be transferred, the beneficiary ideally should be whomever is the executor of her estate. This would then be $$ the executor/family could use for her final/burial expenses. Again NCV is critical for anything you get for her.
Life insurance is sticky in that whole policies have a cash value (you don't want that). The CV amount of the policy MUST be under whatever is the Medicaid ceiling for insurance policies - for Texas it is $ 1,500. If not, you have to cash out the whole life policy before Medicaid will pay. For term policies, it's also important if mom is still kinda young enough to outlive her term policy to the point that it produces a dividend. That dividend is "income" for Medicaid so you need for the
dividend to either be: 1) required to be put back into the policy with no cash distribution OR 2) of such a low amount that it is under the state's ceiling. My experience is that insurance agents hate writing these as they make no real $$ on these type of policies. AARP seem to have the best & easy to set in place ones.
D. legal stuff - If she doesn't have a will, DPOA, MPOA and "guardianship in case of incapacity" done, then go see an elder care attorney to have this drawn up.
This maybe will cost $ 500 - 750 and well worth it.
E. if you have all of the above already done - dental work for mom. Get whatever done ASAP. 1 crown, cleaning and xrays & gum work and poof! 4k gone.
F. New glasses, hearing aid and a good premium walker (like a Hugo) are also good items to buy as Medicaid reinburseable's on those items are cheap and ugly.
G. New easy to put on and hot water washable clothing.
Remember to keep all the receipts and business cards, in case there is a glitch when her application is reviewed. Good luck!
It is really nice that she gets to spend the money, rather than being required to pay it to the NH. Take advantage of that opportunity.
It seems to me the hard question is, do we need to apply for Medicaid? If/when the answer is "yes," then spending down is a given.
If all that is standing between the needy person and qualifying for Mediciad is $4,000 (as in the original posting), then the only question left is what is the best way to spend that $4,000.
Mom now has BCBS as a secondary insurance. Will she need to keep it and if so, are the monthly premiums deducted from her income/assets?
What about dental care---should mom buy dental insurance since she is 90 and still has all of her teeth.
As I understand it, a family's obligations to support their indigent elders vary from state to state; but the whole subject is quite controversial, and unless you are very wealthy I don't think you need worry.
For better and more comprehensive answers, ask your own question and start a new thread if you like - you'll see instructions on the right hand side of the page.