We have a loved one who is not able to eat without passing out. The nursing facility isn't feeding him and so some family members are deciding to try to go and feed him every meal even though he passes out. Is this something that we should be doing or is it an exercise in futility? Is there a chance for a feeding tube to be placed?
Here is an article:
https://www.health.harvard.edu/heart-health/eating-can-cause-low-blood-pressure
Has the NH given you a reason they are not feeding him? Whom have the consulted and are they doing this on medical advice?
If this were my loved one, I'd have hospice involved to provide comfort care at this stage of the game.
I'm sorry you're faced with such a situation. May God grant you the courage to deal with the matter in a peaceful fashion.
It may. Or may not. But to keep the best interests of the patient forefront, adding distressing, invasive treatments should always be carefully considered.
Is it medically recommended?
Is it with or against DNR or known wishes & belief system of patient?
Plus the big one - will it cause harm?
(ie IF end of life, the digestive system slows & shuts down, can't process food).
I would be certainly asking questions. Firstly to a trusted Doctor who knows the patient's situation well.
It sounds like you are in a difficult position. We are here to be your sounding board and to support you however we can. Thank you for sharing.