I moved in with my guy and his father to help him because he had a stroke. I am 40 years old with 4 children. Our relationship is going down hill, due to his father being disrespectful to me, telling lies on me, hollering all day and all night for little things, and I am getting tired. I left my family to move to another state with him and I regret it. He had been removed from 3 rehabilitation programs and doesn't want to get better. Can someone give me some advice about what I need to do for me and my kids?
You regret leaving your family.
Your guy has his hands full.
You are not his wife.
You are a mom.
Call your family to come and pick you all up. (Do you have a brother or sister who will understand?)
No judgment intended, it is your choice to stay, but don't do that to your children, please.