We hired a person to care for her while we are at work, but we care for her the rest of the time. Can we pay ourself the same hourly rate as we pay our helper? Mom has some money that needs to be spent down. We are using some of it to make home improvements to assist her with care and mobility around her home. We have moved into her home to keep her there.
Do you have hospice or palliative care for your mom? I see she has cancer.