Been married (2nd time) for almost 3 years. Been together for 8 years. His Mom lived with him since 2016 when he needed help and she couldn't afford to make her payments. 4 kids between us, 2 married with kids of their own, 1 in the military and 1 under our roof temporarily to relocate. He extended the "move in" offer to my Mom in January. We have a large (very large) house ... BUT... his Mom uses our only guest bath as "hers", my Mom comandeered the half bath as "hers", our middle son and my Mom share the downstairs shower. BOTH Moms use the common areas upstairs. I am losing my mind living with these two old women! Beyond launching me into early menopause (due to their lack of hormones) they do everything LOUD! Eat, walk, sleep, talk, drink, cough, fart, laundry, you name it, they do it LOUD!! And my MIL is the biggest "butt-in-ski" I have ever met. She butts into every conversation and everything related to the house. She thinks she needs to know what is going on with everything and everyone. She thinks she is "cute and funny" when she is really just conniving and manipulative. There is ZERO privacy when she is around. ZERO! Now add my mother. She wants all the same things my MIL has (including MY parking spot because it is up front by the garage door.) And she respects NO house rules. If she wants to move or displace or change something she just does it. My past with my mother is rocky at best. She was very Pro-Woman and very Gloria Steinham so my happy marriage where I am the Beta and he is the boss just grinds her gears. I hate all of this. I'm surrounded by old women and it makes me want to scream. One who wants to challenge every single thing I say and one who thinks she is her son's emotional support wife! I have tried talking to my husband and he simply says "it won't change so why fight it". I am not trying to fight it. I am just trying to breathe. Just trying to survive. - Anyone got any tips for this side of it?