Looking for activity ideas!

First of all, I would like to say that I love your positive spirit. My caregiver days are over. Mom is at my brother’s home now after being in my house for nearly 15 years.

When my mom was younger (she’s almost 94) she was very active. She sewed beautifully, knitted, crochet, embroidery, wonderful cook, volunteered at our school and church, etc.

What about a ‘story hour’? Read interesting articles or short stories to them. Have them record stories for their families. Make a journal with them.

What about a knit/crochet group? Lap quilting? Very easy crafts like painting small boxes or small trays to place their rosary or other jewelry in. I live in a largely Catholic community and a rosary is special.

Making flower pens are relatively easy. Silk flowers, floral tape, and pens can be purchased from the dollar store. That’s all you need. Bouquets can be put in small flower pot, jar, empty veggie can. Empty veggie cans that are painted are pretty. Peel off labels and paint. Small mason jars work too.

Take photos and let them make a photo collage to place in common areas or smaller display for their rooms. Decorating photo frames? Invite family or friends to join in for additional photos.

Music is therapeutic but also fun, brings back memories. Print out lyrics (large print) and play songs for a sing a long.

Card games?

Those able to exercise may like something physical like dancing to music from their era. My grandpa loved to waltz. My mom did the jitterbug! Hahaha. Some could handle a waltz. Chair exercises.

The closest my mom got to a NH was when she was admitted to a NH for skilled nursing rehab. They had a few activities there. I thought the gardening activities were especially nice because it is rewarding to see things grow. They got out of their rooms, enjoyed being outside for awhile.

The seniors that I observed participating seemed to enjoy it, even those in wheelchairs were participating because the flowers and veggies were raised to a height where no one had to bend over.

My mom was a fabulous cook and enjoyed being in the kitchen or cooked simple things for herself until she couldn’t do it anymore. Are there simple recipes that could be prepared such as appetizers or easy no bake sweets, they could even make a fancy punch to be enjoyed by all?

Some people have a sweet tooth and I remember a sweet old lady that used to ask me to purchase candy for her when I visited mom at rehab. She didn’t have any money for the vending machine. I checked if she had dietary restrictions and she didn’t so I bought candy for her. She enjoyed it so much. I started buying the individual ice cream cups for them. Those without dietary restrictions enjoyed them. Why not do an ice cream sundae bar? Or decorate sugar cookies?

One of the sweetest things I saw was on CBS Sunday morning news show where a nurse brought her young daughter to work with her on occasion. She looked to be about 12 or so. She went around speaking to all the residents and asked if they had a wish to put in her ‘wish’ notebook. She was surprised by the answers she received. It was not answers like ‘a million dollars’ or stuff like that. It was stuff like, cookies, Vienna sausage, candy, someone to play cards with. Well she plays cards with them. She raised money and delivered their goodies to them. The residents loved this kid! So did I. She was adorable.

Unfortunately, most of mom’s time was spent in the OT and PT so she missed several of the activities that were scheduled during that time.

There were activities scheduled at times that she could have made it but she always refused no matter how often she was encouraged. She wouldn’t even do lunch at our local senior community center. She became a homebody that didn’t socialize much. I felt socialization was important but she quickly shot down any suggestions.

I don’t know how much I helped but I wish you luck. Others will have ideas.

I am aware that everyone can’t do these.

My mother doesn't get involved in her Sr Center beyond BINGO, but I have been there and I have noticed there are ALWAYS quilts set up, puzzles set up (ENORMOUS ONES, BTW, which, when finished are framed and signed.)

Local authors--or even a book review, many srs no longer have the time span to read a whole book. Movie days, complete with popcorn (from experience, get the hull-less 'fake' popcorn!) and soda and show old movies.

They also do a LOT of care packages for the local boys and girls clubs, and for foreign aid. These do not need to cost much. I know my mother sends all her ggkids a $5 bill for their b-days, which is kind, but they don't know who she IS, and that $5 to a 16 yo kid--makes no dent in their lives. I suggested mother hold off the on the $5 and we'd do something @ Christmas. With her money and support from some local merchants, we were able to put together 50 filled Christmas stockings and the $5 bills were in each one. She was far more joyful with that than 'gifting' my extremely spoiled and wealthy grandkids.

IMHO, giving srs a sense of 'giving and doing' instead of simply trying to just constantly finding more ways to 'play'---they need to feel useful and needed.

Ask the local high school band directors if they would plan a series of concerts. Maybe old time sing along songs? Maybe Christmas program? Etc,

it would be great of the kids to get out and perform...and the seniors would like it too...

Have a fashion show, voting for best..funniest...most interesting...most expensive...
most colorful...with prizes! Maybe first have a "HAT" show, with same focus + prizes.

One suggestion is to check with various junior hi and high schools in the area and see if they would be willing to have students come and put on skits from drama classes, acrobats with gymnasts, singing choirs. Younger generations need to mingle as well with the elderly.

finger nail painting, once a week at no charge. Work on a puzzle as teams and compete to see who can finish puzzle first. I cut out pictures of foods, clothes, accessories, kids riding bikes, camping, pics. of animals, etc. and then would sit with my husband who had Alz. and have him look for items in the pics. Ask him questions about what do you think these children are doing etc. He loved those times. Brought out his year book and family pics and we would look and them. He would share things with me as we looked at them.

Call local dance studios or music centers. My daughters dance studio was ages 2yrs-15yrs old and the seniors loved seeing them sing and dance. Especially the younger group. People taking music lessons can perform with guitar or piano/key board.

Puzzles, book clubs, and even check out any local threatre groups close by. Talk to the schools about any programs that the younger kids are putting together. Usually they can come perform for the residents and make them cards. See is the High Schools require to the Seniors to have certain amount of community service hours to graduate. If so, offer an Adopt a Grandparent program. Also talk to local Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts troops.

When my mother was in assisted living she loved music and going outdoors. One really special event was that they took the minibus to a local park and had lunch. It was just sandwiches and juice on a picnic table but to her it reminded her of earlier days of family picnics and so she really enjoyed that. I would look into the hobbies that the residents had when they were younger and try to come up with similar crafts.

My ex is in a AL facility in Washington. It is hard sometimes to find activities for men. They have Tailgate parties when the Seahawks are in town The AL is on the Spokane side of the mountains. They even have 1 beer for everyone. I understand they tried it for the Mariners, but it didn't go over as well.

One lady who has dementia and always thinks the parties are at her house is encouraged to help out. They will say, This tea is for Margaret, would you take it to her. So, she takes it over, thanks her for coming, and chats a minute like a good hostess. One time she told my daughter she wished those people would go home because the party should be over. My daughter just commended her for having such a wonderful event. Mentioned that it was so successful that no one wanted to leave yet.

They have a McDonalds coffee clatch every morning for the guys. They did ask the guys if the gals could come and they said "sure". They have organized walks for those who are able.

They have a bus and take day trips to scenic spots near by. One time my daughter came by because her dad was supposed to go, he backed out, so she got on the bus and went and left him there at the AL. That was when he was fussing about having to go to AL and making it hard for her.