My mother is going into assisted living shortly. My husband and I have planned to retire out of state, and are looking for houses. I intend to visit as frequently as I can (every month or two). My brother lives in the state and visits my mother regularly. But I feel guilty leaving at a time when she is most vulnerable, yet my husband says we need to do this now as he is ready to retire. Help.
Remember, not everything is without pain. Not everything is perfect. We do the best we can. Only good and decent people feel guilt. The psychopathic personality doesn't give it a thought.