She was having hallucinations that the conversation was real and one time wss going to call police because she felt threatened by on of the videos. She started crying and wanted me to put it back on her phone for her entertainment. It hurts me and I still could get her to understand it was not good for her. I can't get her to go to a senior center for interaction with others and Church is out because she hurts sitting in the pews. Are there any other social interaction tools out there?
Good luck!
If you can, take your Mom to her primary doctor or even urgent care and have her tested for an UTI. The test is simple, and if it comes back positive, it can be controlled by antibiotics.
One has to be very careful about the websites they are using. Some have questionable security, some will scam elders, some will spy on the user. TikTok is questionable, it has been accused of ‘aggressive’ data harvesting. One can find many articles on Google about said issue.
Please see if you can interest her in games like Solitary, crossword puzzles and a specialized designed game place called, "Lumosity." There are probably comedic websites too. Here's a free brain game site: https://www.brainhq.com
Sometimes we care givers have to be the "bad guy."