My granddaughter has no where else to live her mother and step father on drugs, father unemployed and homeless. I am her only hope of a stable life and now I have to leave my home because of her. I cannot afford housing anywhere else as I am retired on ss retirement with mobility issues. What can I do if anything to stay in my home?
There must be someone on your HOA board who can give you the 'rules'. I actually think it may be against the law to discriminate against someone b/c of age.
Don't assume the worst!
I had a friend who has custody of 3 grandkids. At one point she was facing losing her home and she was looking into 55+ mobile home parks. There were a lot of situations where grandma had custody of a couple of grands. Not one of the parks refused to rent to her with the kids in tow.
Good Luck (on all accounts!)
A friend of mine lives in a mobile home park that is 55+ and they also have the same restriction they do not even allow grandkids to trick or treat in the community.!
Anything can be fought the question is are you willing to spend the money on a case you will most likely lose. the parks are generally owned by companies with deep pockets and they do not want 1 case setting precedence and "ticking off" the whole community.
Also, if you have legal custody of the child, you are collecting for her from either your Social Security or the state is paying because she is a foster child.
Talk to the mobile home association where you live and explain your situation. They may be reasonable to you considering your situation.
Would they force a married couple out if the husband is over 55 and the wife is a younger woman and she gets pregnant and has a child while they live there?
You just have to find out what their rules and polices will be on this.
We could have no idea what you might do in this circumstance.
I think that you might have better luck with adding the word "temporary" to this custody, as it may be just that if the couple gets clean.
I would say you have temporary custody due to family illness. See how that works. If there are not parties and such then this may just be sort of ignored and under the carpet, but again this is up to you to find out for your own community; they are all different.
I sure do wish you the very best of luck.
BUT - we have playgrounds for the kids plus swimming classes for them; they fish in our lakes, attend special programs such as crafts and day camp at holiday times, and they are welcome at entertainment as long as it's not a adult thing where they'd be in the way, such as underfoot while their elders are learning to tango. In summer, kids have special hours at all pools. There's a grandparents' club so they can arrange play dates with other grandparents. They can stay for lengthy times while their parents are on a longish trip. We are friendly and welcoming, but this cannot be their legal residence. They cannot run and play freely in others' yards, and they cannot drive golf carts.
Rules might be bent for someone in OP's case, but probably only temporarily as an emergency.
Is this an HOA situation? If not you stand a better chance of allowing the grandchild to be able to stay.
Section 8 lists seem to be closed in your area; so maybe you could
1. get a housing voucher through HUD Public Housing (561-924-5565)?
2. sell and move to an all-age park[www.mhvillage.com/parks/fl/boynton-beach]?
3. ask whoever at DCF was assigned to your granddaughter's case to see if they can point you to something useful?
Wishing you and GDaughter success and a peaceful home.
People pay a premium to live in child free communities for a reason. It’s not fair to everyone else in the park to make exceptions to the rules.
What a shame that there doesn’t seem to be any allowances for a child who has special circumstances, due to her situation with her parents.
I am so sorry that you are caught between a rock and a hard place. I hope things will somehow work out for you and your family.
I do agree, OP has special circumstances. I guess u don't have other children who could take her in? Maybe the father's family? You may get paid by the County to care for her.
Can I grandparent raising a minor grandchild, who has custody of said child bring that child to live with them in senior housing?????
I'd check with the park management or HOA management and feel them out.
There are a lot of mobile home communities in Florida that allow families with children. You may need to move to one of these more welcoming communities.
My county in Florida, Alachua, has government agencies that help people find affordable housing. Those with children, and women, are prioritized and relocated to housing in less than 30 days.
Also, since you are caring for a minor child you may qualify for some extra assistance money from the state of Florida. The state would rather have the child cared by by you, a family member, than in foster care.
The Federal Fair Housing Act supercedes the Mobile Home Park rules.
FAIR HOUSING DISCRIMINATION AND
MOBILE HOME PARKS
Legal Aid Society of
Palm Beach County
Fair Housing Project
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction to Fair Housing Act 3
Discrimination Against Families
with Children 7
Discrimination Against Individuals
with Disabilities 10
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Even though a MH Park is 55+, State laws could protect you. See the Mobile Home Statutes in your State. The State Statutes supercede the Park's Rules.
See a fair housing attorney in your area. One that specializes in mobile home residents, not mobile home park owners!
Some mobile home residents/owners can live in a Senior Only Park because the laws provide a percentage has to be 55+, maybe 80/20 %. The 20% can be families if your city's ordinances apply. City Ordinances would supercede Park Rules.
And lastly, Mobile Home Rules must apply to all resident homeowners equally.
Are there any children living in your MH Park?
And finally, what action was taken against you, such as an eviction?
You can and should fight that.
Do not take the word of Park Management or your neighbors.
These are adult only communities , which is why people choose to live there.
Similar to why people choose adult only cruises , and resorts. There are even adult only restaurants popping up in cities.
With such limited income and mobility issues (do you have a car? do you drive?) and now with pressure to move to a more expense location... you run the risk of plunging both you and your Granddaughter into poverty and stress.
I'm 65 and my grandson is 14 (and living with his parents). He's doing well in school because his home life is stable (working Father who can support the family, makes time for his kids). He plays JH football and thus has a good network of friends (which is extremely important to belong to a social group during formative youth years). He goes to the afterschool bible study group. He goes to (and hosts) sleepovers. Your granddaughter won't have any of this if she lives with you.
I'm so sorry for this dilemma, but there is an alternative.
I would talk to her social worker about the possibility of foster care.
"one third to one half of children that have been in foster care report having suffered abuse in their foster homes.."
The OP is between a rock and a hard place because of the two drug addicts that became parents. She has limited income and means to care for her granddaughter and is restricted by a 55+ community. I will post more about that above.
The OP never returned to engage with us.
Oops, sorry JoAnn, I just noticed your answer above mine :)