My boyfriend is in nursing home and his family lives 800 miles away and visits only twice a year. I am his only visitor and he depends on me for everything. I'm old too and very tired but he doesn't understand that. He wants me there at least 3 days a week for 2 - 3 hours each visit. What can I do to visit less?
(And please turn off your caps lock, all caps is considered shouting and besides that has been proven more difficult to read)
Like willie said, you do what you want. If the 3x a week is Ok but its the 2 to 3 hours, cut back on the hours. If its the days cut back to 2 staying how long you are comfortable with.
He is BF not your husband. I don't think the relationship is going to go anywhere. 😊