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You become your husbands caregiver by doing everything required to take on his care. You don't need permission from anyone to take care of your spouse, you just do it. I'm guessing though you're asking how you get paid to take care of your spouse, which is a totally different question. I personally don't know of any spouses that ever got paid for caring for their spouse nor did they ever even think about needing to be paid, as when we marry it's "for better or worse, in sickness and health, till death do us part," so we take on their care out of love and commitment. I took care of my late husband for 24 1/2 years of our 26 year marriage and never once expected or wanted to be paid for it. In fact it never even crossed my mind. I did it because I loved him and knew that I could care for him better than anyone else. Now I believe that if you're on Medicaid, they will allow someone a few hours a week to be paid, and perhaps if your spouse is a veteran, and qualifies, they offer something called Aide and Assist which may allow you to be paid something, but usually they will send an aide out to your house instead.
‘True love’ is how I would describe your relationship with your husband. I never cease to smile when I read your posts regarding your relationship with your husband.
Technically everyone is a "caregiver" for their spouse. I am guessing you are asking how to get paid as a caregiver. If your husband is a Veteran the VA now has programs that will pay the spouse to be a caregiver. Contact the VA and ask to talk to a Social Worker or a Patient Advocate. (If he is not in the VA system contact your County Veterans Assistance Commission they can help determine his level of "service connected disability, if there is one or not, and start the process.) Contact your local Area Agency on Aging and see if there are any programs you might qualify for. You could also contact your local Senior Center, ask if they have a Social Worker and they may be aware of programs that may help you.
You know there should be some kind of compensation for a Spouse caring for a spouse. Sometimes a spouse has to quit a job or cut back on hours to care for a Spouse so this means losing income they may need.
It all really depends on your income. And a lot of people fall thru the cracks. You could try Medicaid. Like said, if he was in the service, call your County VA. Aid and Attendance can only be gotten by those who served during war-time. But it does not hurt to call and see what DH can get.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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The hard reality of life is that spouse or family caregivers are not financially compensated for their role.
I'm guessing though you're asking how you get paid to take care of your spouse, which is a totally different question. I personally don't know of any spouses that ever got paid for caring for their spouse nor did they ever even think about needing to be paid, as when we marry it's "for better or worse, in sickness and health, till death do us part," so we take on their care out of love and commitment.
I took care of my late husband for 24 1/2 years of our 26 year marriage and never once expected or wanted to be paid for it. In fact it never even crossed my mind. I did it because I loved him and knew that I could care for him better than anyone else.
Now I believe that if you're on Medicaid, they will allow someone a few hours a week to be paid, and perhaps if your spouse is a veteran, and qualifies, they offer something called Aide and Assist which may allow you to be paid something, but usually they will send an aide out to your house instead.
I am guessing you are asking how to get paid as a caregiver.
If your husband is a Veteran the VA now has programs that will pay the spouse to be a caregiver. Contact the VA and ask to talk to a Social Worker or a Patient Advocate. (If he is not in the VA system contact your County Veterans Assistance Commission they can help determine his level of "service connected disability, if there is one or not, and start the process.)
Contact your local Area Agency on Aging and see if there are any programs you might qualify for.
You could also contact your local Senior Center, ask if they have a Social Worker and they may be aware of programs that may help you.
It all really depends on your income. And a lot of people fall thru the cracks. You could try Medicaid. Like said, if he was in the service, call your County VA. Aid and Attendance can only be gotten by those who served during war-time. But it does not hurt to call and see what DH can get.