Today my father told me my brother has tested positive for Covid. My brother was feeling tired yesterday and developed a cough today. Then my father tells me my sister-in-law, who lives with my brother, is coming over in a half hour to bring her homemade cookies over to him! He's got plenty of deserts right now and plenty of food. I was mad. I told him that if he got Covid then I'm not going to care. Am I right to be mad?
Mt father told me my sister-in-law came over, was wearing a mask and only stayed a minute. I'm mad at them all. How dumb!
I learned today that my nephews new friend is actually an accomplished "computer nerd". Still, I'm keeping an eye out. Today they weren't at my father's. Soon both will be back in school.
You have no say.
The fact that you keep coming to an Internet forum to ask if you’re right just reinforces your insecurity.
You can be mad or you can be happy. Your choice.
In the world right now, there are thousands of reasons to be upset, unhappy, angry, scared and most of them are justified, even. Yet happiness is a choice, an inside job, and one that we can choose no matter WHAT is going on in the world that suggests we choose misery.
You come here constantly asking for validation for your anger.
YOU tell US if you 'should be' mad or if you should choose happiness?
Oftentimes, it requires you to overlook certain 'injustices' (perceived or otherwise) that you see happening, in order to choose happiness. Ask yourself, am I better off being right or being happy?
But it’s one that you say your father is cognizant to take.
Therfore, stay out of it.
You really do need to get a life and lots of therapy as you have WAY too many issues for anyone on this forum to help you with.
Bottom line....it's your fathers house and he can let anyone he wants into it. If you don't like it MOVE OUT, and quit bothering the good people on this forum with your nonsense.
Its your fathers house and he can decide who can/can't visit him