I am on my fifth agency in two years. I only need them for respite for two hours twice a week, and find most agencies don't have the staff to cover that. The last agency did have a caregiver they sent but she would no show every other week. Not to mention they never had a correct invoice (always was over) in the nine months I had them. It's so frustrating.
A few workers weren’t good. I asked for a replacement worker. The last worker was an absolute gem! She was very, very caring and dependable.
I think part of the problem is the low pay. Yes, they should do a good job but they make very little money for a tough job and I suppose some workers lose interest in doing a good job. It is frustrating. I hope you will find a suitable worker soon. Don’t hesitate to ask for replacement workers.
It’s the same for teachers. I was a teacher. Teachers do a very important job. Do they get paid what they should? NO! So what happens? We leave and take other jobs that pay more.
So basically, a family member or trusted individual has to be there to make sure the caregiver shows up and does her/his job!!!!
I know from experience it is very difficult to find dependable people, even to just SIT and provide companionship for the loved one. Several years ago I was guardian for an aunt. She had dementia, was living in MC and had fallen and injured her knee. The MC told me I needed to hire someone to stay with her at night (on top of her living there, which is/was crazy too). That was a drama-filled circus, trying to find people, have them actually show up, etc. One CG was recommended to me and I hired her to fill in one night when none of the others could make it. The next day I was told by some of the staff that she never even went in my aunt's room to check on her during the night, stayed on her phone, played around and socialized all night with the other staff members (several were friends of hers). ALL she had to do was go sit in the room with my aunt to make sure she didn't get up and fall during the night. She could have played on her phone while in the room with my aunt. She could have napped. All she needed to do was be in the room with her and she could NOT EVEN DO THAT!!!! Needless to say, I let her know I would NOT be hiring her again!
I found a wonderful caregiver. Professional. She wouldn’t work for less than$18 per hour. Since I was required by the LTC insurance company to only hire licensed professionals...and Colorado will only issue a license to agencies...I had to use an agency.
so, I spoke with the owner of the agency and said that they would hire this woman and pay her $18 per hour. This was easy money in their pocket...no training, no issues with managing her, etc. otherwise, I would shop around till I found and agency that would hire her.
she worked full time as caregiver for my Dad. The insurance company paid the bill every 2 weeks.
I am really an advocate for looking to friends, social groups, church, etc. to find a caregiver. Maybe it was just my luck to find such a gem....but, it is the only thing that worked for me.
I hired through the local Community College. 2 people that were in the Nursing program and had completed their CNA Certification and were waiting for the next semester to begin. I told them I would be willing to schedule them around their class schedules. (this works if you are flexible with your own schedule) I have to say they were the 2 best caregivers I had. I also had some through an agency and never had a problem.