I had moved dad to Michigan near me last October and was able to visit him everyday until the Covid crisis. But still had many window visits and traded videos with the staff.
He was on hospice and they helped him have a peaceful death. He had no pain or distress. The long battle with dementia is finally over. He’ll be cremated here then I’ll bury his ashes beside mom in WV.
I want to thank Aging care and all the good people I have interacted with the past few years. This site was a great resource for me as I dealt with both parents on my own.
I am sorry for your loss, I send you my sincere condolences.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for the loss of your father this morning but, am thankful when you moved him near you last October you were able to visit him daily and when the pandemic came along you had many "window visits."
I'm so glad he had no pain and wasn't in distress. Like you said his long battle with dementia is finally over and now he will be beside "mom" in WV. I know the pain will still be there but, you were very loving and caring in the process as you dealt with it on your own.
May God surround you with His love, mercy and comfort!
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4
May God grant you peace and comfort during this time.
He was blessed to have a son that cared so much.
So sorry for your loss of your Father.
(Both parents, really).
You are a good Son!
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
This is a real community here; there are times I feel closer to you all than anyone else. ((((Hugs)))))).
I am so sorry about your dad. You shared a great deal with us about your parents last few years. Your posts stand out in memory with the many issues you faced head on but with compassion and love. The moves, the dental issues, the clearing of the home, your moms services. The regular visits. I just read recently that you were volunteering for hospice. I always looked forward to your posts and your ability to move forward with the issue at hand. Take care and know you make a difference to many.
You've journeyed a long way with your parents, from the rush visits down to WV whenever a crisis occurred to support of both parents until your mother passed, then when you brought your father back here. That was I think an excellent choice, especially for him. You gave up your life to be with them, comfort and guide them.
I've no doubt that that guidance helped ease both your mother's passing earlier, and your father's now.
I wish you peace as you go forward, and may the memories of good times as well as the support you willingly and lovingly provided comfort you in the days ahead.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. My dad passed away in August. My prayer for you is to feel God’s wisdom, clarity, insight, peace and rest. Thank you for sharing your journey with us on this forum. You helped me and many, many others by knowing we are not alone. You are a blessing.
Time, at last - to lay down your sword and shield. The war is finally over, with no winners or losers - just peace finally for all.
You have been a valiant protector and I have always appreciated and admired the level of dignity and respect with which you treated both of your parents - even when it made things more difficult for you.
As the minutes and hours come - of looking back and reflecting on this time and the choices made - know you can hold your head high in a battle well fought.
With sympathy - Rain