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Cathy, how long has it been since Hubby has been to see his doctor? I always use the excuse that my hubby’s pcp needs to see him at least once a year to renew his meds. That’s how I get him in there. I bathe hubby at least every other day. He is bedridden so I can’t get him in the shower, but I do the best I can to watch for infections, bed sores, etc.
It sounds like Hubby isn’t feeling well, mentally and/or physically. There are medications out there that could make him feel better about himself and his life.
I know it’s very difficult to keep odors down in your home, especially in winter when windows are shut tight. My hubby is incontinent and I try not to leave his bedding sit. I use clearners to mop floors and wash his bed that have a pretty strong fragrance. I’ve also used Febreze, candles and plug-in fresheners. I know there is an odor people notice when they come over but I do the best I can within my own abilities.
Try to get Hubby to the doctor’s. The way he’s acting isn’t normal. He may not want to go, but at least you tried.
Cathy, sometimes were one get older, bathing/showing becomes an exhausting chore. I am beginning to notice that on my self. There is that fear of falling plus some showers become claustrophobic.
Between baths, one can use baby wipes to clean themselves all over. There are also wipes for adults to use. There is also waterless hair shampoos.
As for living in the same clothes for every 3 months, couldn't you just grab those clothes when hubby gets ready for bed? Could it be those clothes are the only ones that he feels comfortable wearing. Others could be too tight or too loose around the waist.
As for the cigarette smoking, nothing you can do about that. Was he a smoker when you met him? If yes, then you accepted him along with the smoking. Bet the whole house smells of the tobacco, so visitors would need to accept that if they wish to visit with hubby.
As for infections. Only two came to mind, one is Urinary Tract Infection. That can make a person very grumpy, non-user friendly, and sometimes violent. Who'd think such an infection could reek such havoc. If hubby is quite over-weight then there could be infections within the folds of his skin.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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It sounds like Hubby isn’t feeling well, mentally and/or physically. There are medications out there that could make him feel better about himself and his life.
I know it’s very difficult to keep odors down in your home, especially in winter when windows are shut tight. My hubby is incontinent and I try not to leave his bedding sit. I use clearners to mop floors and wash his bed that have a pretty strong fragrance. I’ve also used Febreze, candles and plug-in fresheners. I know there is an odor people notice when they come over but I do the best I can within my own abilities.
Try to get Hubby to the doctor’s. The way he’s acting isn’t normal. He may not want to go, but at least you tried.
Between baths, one can use baby wipes to clean themselves all over. There are also wipes for adults to use. There is also waterless hair shampoos.
As for living in the same clothes for every 3 months, couldn't you just grab those clothes when hubby gets ready for bed? Could it be those clothes are the only ones that he feels comfortable wearing. Others could be too tight or too loose around the waist.
As for the cigarette smoking, nothing you can do about that. Was he a smoker when you met him? If yes, then you accepted him along with the smoking. Bet the whole house smells of the tobacco, so visitors would need to accept that if they wish to visit with hubby.
As for infections. Only two came to mind, one is Urinary Tract Infection. That can make a person very grumpy, non-user friendly, and sometimes violent. Who'd think such an infection could reek such havoc. If hubby is quite over-weight then there could be infections within the folds of his skin.