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It’s not safe for either of you. For him to move home. Find a place near you. Things do not get better from here.

google care advisors, they are realtors of sort . They are paid by the facility you place with. get one who is local , who knows the area, your needs , your finances, their reputation. They will meet you for tours, will meet with you with the facility. Basically direct it all and streamline your search. I used a company called care patrol by me . A franchise. I placed my in laws and my mom here. And my mom previously with an independent in another state.
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I’m sorry you’re in this position. Please make sure your husband is being evaluated for meds that can help calm the volatility. It’s no longer safe for either of you for him to live at home, he needs a memory care setting. You’ll still be his caregiver, but a safe, rested one who can advocate for his needs. Research the options near you and arrange medical transport when you find what seems best. Remember, you matter too
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Find a home close to you, place him in Memory Care for his and your own safety.

He will not get better, this is a progressive disease that has no cure, His promises mean nothing as his brain is broken. He is in the aggressive phase, you will not be able to handle him in your home. He is a danger to you.

Hire a medical transport to move him.

I wish you the best!
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He can't "promise" you anything.

Find a facility close to you and hire medical transport to get him there.

Are his behaviors being addressed with medication?
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