Me and my boyfriend have been separated from our spouses for almost 3 years now. We are both still legally married and plan to file for divorce. Until that time and during the wait time can we both get POA for each each of us appointed one another for health decisions etc…In Tennessee.. and if we get the Durable POA can spouses contest it
You need to address this with an elder law attorney who needs to write you one HECK of a powerful airtight POA if you are going to atttempt this. My opinion is that you should get this divorce done. The consequences could be MANY without doing so. If you have a spouse out there then your legal responsibilities regarding that person can be a good deal more consequential than just worrying over POA.