My 93 year old mother needs so much care that it has become unsustainable to keep her in her home. She has OCD and does poorly with even minor changes. Leaving her home and most of her furniture for a small room in assisted living is NOT going to go well.
I need to hear from others who have gone through this to help prepare myself and her.
It would have been a blessing for her to stay in her own home, but she does not qualify for aid, even though she does not have enough for her nursing care.
She is not going to take to any change. This is very hard for the elderly and more so for those with Dementia. Its now what Mom needs, not what she wants. From your profile, think u need a break. You have done what you could. Your Mom, as my daughter says, has lived past her expiration date. She now need more than u can give.