My 95 year old great grandmother has early on set dementia and has a caregiver. The caregiver picks up grocery's once a week and does light cleaning, she is also supposed to pick up a sandwich if grandma wants one while she is out. There is a pre paid debit card that she pays for the grocery's and sandwiches for. come back to the house and told my grandmother that she forgot to use the card and paid cash my grandmother does not know how much stuff costs so she gives her $60 . i am very upset about this because i also have a caregiver and mine would never except money from me and this women keeps taking my grandmother out of money i know that it is not a lot of money but its my grandmas not this woman she is paid out of the check book every month to the company that hired her. that pays there fee and the amount that is charged on the card for that month also can any one please give me advice if i am wrong or how to handle this. also we are in washington state not sure if laws or rules are different in states?