Mom passed and they are saying I have to. I don't have money for repairs and it would never pass any code for sale. They are telling me I have to make it sellable, but it's not my home and she passed. I don't have the money for an attorney either. What do I do?
This article states:
..." there will be no recovery made against the exempt home of a Medicaid recipient (i.e. it will not have to be sold to pay back the state)" ...if
"A son or daughter (of any age) of the Medicaid recipient lived in the house for at least two years immediately prior to the date the recipient was admitted to the nursing home, has continuously lived in the house since then, and provided care to the Medicaid recipient prior to their placement, which permitted them to delay entering the nursing home."
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/medicaid-repayment-of-nursing-home-estate-recovery-150497.htm
You sound as though you are grieving and tired. If you don't have the energy to follow up on this, maybe your sisters do? Can you contact Legal Aid? The home sounds like it is eligible for this exemption and you sound like you could use the money for your future.